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As our loved ones age, recognizing the signs that they may need additional help can be challenging (for non-professionals) but crucial to their care and safety. Home care professionals often observe consistent patterns that indicate when someone could benefit from assisted living services, but many aren’t immediately obvious to an adult child responsible for caring for a parent, relative or friend.

Here are five key signs to look for, along with our guidance on how to proceed, should you notice them yourself.

Five Signs a Loved One May Be in Need of Home Care Services

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1. Recent Hospitalization or Rehabilitation Stay

A hospital or rehab stay often marks a turning point for seniors. If a loved one is recovering from surgery, illness or an injury, they likely require assistance during their recovery phase — both nursing care and assistance with the activities of daily living (ADL). Home care professionals can help bridge the gap by providing non-medical support, ensuring a safer and smoother transition back home during recovery and rehab.

2. Cognitive and Behavioral Changes

Forgetfulness, confusion or noticeable personality shifts can signal cognitive decline. Loved ones may struggle to recall names, misplace items frequently, or withdraw from social interactions. Such changes could be related to conditions of cognitive impairment, but sometimes they represent simple auditory issues that affect hearing and acommunication. Knowing the root cause of the behaviors you’re seeing are important; finding and securing professional assistance will provide the structure and safety to address whatever need currently exists or might arise in the future.

3. Neglect of Hygiene, Personal Care or Medical Needs

A decline in personal hygiene — such as infrequent bathing or wearing soiled clothing — is often a significant red flag of underlying decline, be it physical or mental (or both). Similarly, neglecting medical appointments, failing to take prescribed medications, or dismissing routine health checkups can both exacerbate health risks and be indicators of other underlying and serious conditions. These signs often indicate that additional support is essential to maintain both physical health and personal dignity.

4. Difficulty Managing Routine Tasks and Home Maintenance

When household chores — such as cleaning, doing dishes, or keeping up with laundry — begin to fall by the wayside, it can lead to a cluttered or unsafe environment. Unkempt homes can increase the risk of accidents, such as falls, which are particularly dangerous for seniors. Home care providers can assist with these everyday tasks, ensuring a clean and secure living space. 

Once detected, keep in mind that it needn’t necessarily fall on yourself to maintain the home, and it is likely unrealistic to expect aging seniors to keep the home up as they age; there are many more services available than widely understood. Learn more about how home care professionals can take such tasks and chores off of your plate.

5. Mobility Issues or Safety Concerns

Unsteadiness, clumsiness, or a history of falls are common indicators that a senior needs mobility or safety monitoring. Whether it’s helping Mom or Dad navigate stairs, reducing or removing common trip/fall hazards, or assisting with walking, home care can play a crucial role in preventing injuries and improving overall safety and comfort at home.

What to Do If You Notice These Signs

If you observe one or more of these indicators, the first step is to schedule an appointment with your loved one’s doctor. Medical professionals can assess the situation comprehensively and provide trusted recommendations for care. Mom or Dad may be resistant to a child’s directives and pleas for assistance, but they are very likely to heed the advice of a doctor. Engage a medical professional to gain your loved one’s trust and cooperation.

After receiving the doctor’s input, reaching out to a reputable home care agency is the next best step. Experienced caregivers can provide personalized plans to meet your loved one’s unique needs, allowing them to remain safely at home for as long as possible. Knowing your complete range of options and sharing them with sometimes hesitant parents can go a long way toward making the next move a welcome one. Once a parent is given options to choose from, they are more likely to feel part of the decision-making process.

Once these consultations have been conducted, it will be a lot easier to complete the final step: having the conversation with the loved one about planning for the future here in the present.

Taking action quickly can prevent further complications, ensuring your loved one’s safety, health and quality of life are taken care of as soon as possible. Recognizing these signs is important; acting on them quickly can make all the difference in keeping your loved one safe and contented, while you get your time and life back sooner rather than later.

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